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Honoring Sexual Standards

My needs matter and I had to learn through trials and tribulations that sex is more than an act for me

 

Evaluation Sunday Blog

Laying down with dogs sometimes you can get up with fleas. Chile I have and those fleas taught me to honor my core. In order to fully honor my core I had to learn to listen to myself. I had to learn that I matter just as much as the other person. What I want, what I desire and what I need is not too much to ask for and if someone isn’t willing to offer that then it's time to move forward. It’s a difference when you know your needs and someone unwillingly , doesn’t want to offer it. It’s not my responsibility to change what someone is unwilling to offer, period. My needs matter and I had to learn through trials and tribulations that sex is more than an act for me. It’s a soul tie. Now learning the difference between a healthy and unhealthy soul tie was a wholeeeee another process. I had to learn who I let in doesn’t just affect me physically, but also emotionally, spiritually and mentally. So I have to be careful of what I allow in my presence. I’m in a space where I’m dating intentionally and if someone wants to play games I’m not for them. If someone wants just sex I’m not for them. If someone is talking and having sex with anybody IM NOT FOR THEM. I had to learn to stop subjecting my standards to please a feeling to be seen, heard or valued. I have to constantly address those feelings by understanding who, what, when, where and how they will affect me. So y’all I’m abstaining from sex, my goal is celibacy. Sex is a connection for me and I don’t want to settle my standards for a moment. I’m learning how to set not just physical boundaries, but emotional boundaries as well. I’m human. I may mess up but I’m honoring myself from my core.


Cadedra Burks 

Honoring Sexual Standards 

Personal Blog 

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