3 Ways I’m Dating Me

I continue to date me, I choose to aspire to the full acceptance of what it means to affirm God’s version of me.

Chileeeee let me tell you something about dating myself…I learned to date when I chose to accept, affirm and aspire what I needed, what I wanted and what I desire for me, for my lifestyle and for my partner to come. Typically, the first step is to accept ‘what it is’, whatever that is and I often found that this was the hardest part of my journey. Acceptance for me is understanding my self awareness. I realized that getting to know myself was a journey not a destination; it’s progression not a project. I thought once I knew or became aware of what I needed to accept that my healing was automatic. Chileee it was given very much robot vibes. I knew the best version of myself was affirm in the lesson not the achievement. Whew, deep I know right. The lessons teaches us how to embrace the fruits of the spirits, even when it doesn’t look like what we expected or the outcome wasn’t in our favor. The practice of my worth strengthens when I choose to show up as my authentic self. The journey of becoming is rooted in the aspirations I value. Identifying my character, embracing my values, upholding my standards and walking in my purpose taught me to how to treat myself, respect myself and honor myself. In order to show the world, show a lover, show family and friends or perhaps a partner I had to discover me. That self discovery led to an empowerment of my voice; my voice to educate, emote and engage on what it means to take care of me. As I continue to date me, I choose to aspire to the full acceptance of what it means to affirm God’s version of me.

Cadedra Burks

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